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• 2009-Dec-27 - Become a happy silly woman
Become a happy silly woman
I annotate the happiness like this:
A family, the size that have nothing to do, it is all right to be comfortable, warm.
One loves person who you and you love, stand together through thick and thin, lead gently.
A healthy, lively child. Continuity of the love.
One steady job, have plenty of food and clothing foot.
My happy view is simple like this, the such one is dull. Not needing to be full of riches and honour, does not need silk clothing jade food, it is earth-shaken not to need. There is only simple life, the ordinary one is interdependent, mutual warmth and holding the sub hands, tacit understanding of living together to a ripe old age with the son.
It is a mental state to me to be happy, one is satisfied, mutual and happy, the leading of soul, it is the cherishing of the life, have me in you, have you in me.
It is the happy the like the shadow following the person as me,tentacle but and.
Early morning, husband leave the seal of the love at the face in me and child go out, I feel happiness.
The child says to me at the gate of kindergarten every day: "Mum, good-bye. " I am happy.
Expect the husband to come off duty, far see him closer and closer to me, I am happy.
See he and child take with relish meal that I make, I am happy.
Take a walk at dusk, he is drawing the hands of child and me, I am happy.
I am happy in the loving of the husband, happy in the husband's care, happy in the child's laugh, happy in the child's growth
Simple disposition, let me have too much happiness.
I am not ever a clever woman, art of life has some I can't be had a taste of. I do not understand the fighting that job market had, interests smoked heart. Do not understand interpersonal scheming against, suspicious and resentful each other. Do not understand that flatter and please for private interests still more. The picture one is unfamiliar with affairs of human life " The fool " . Have asked the husband more than once: "Am I very silly? " He whether whole face put on a smile " a silly one lovely, clever woman too tired too, I you tired, you would rather become a happy silly woman. " |
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• 2009-Dec-27 - Live for you
Live for you
Husband and wife have been already about fifty years of age, although not approaching old age, already had too many misgivingses in life. Such as unable and too tired, can't eat too full, can't wipe out too hot, over-salty, the medicine bottle of the family exceeds the condiment bottle In a word, everything, in order to promote longevity.
She still cooperates at the beginning, more and more impatient gradually later. It is dull to live, then indulge oneself unprincipledly, anything is salty and hot, leave alone without exception.
He can not be in charge of her, must live oneself in but control. She thinks, this old fellow, takes care of the body from morning till night, see you can live to the age of 100!
One day, he blurts out and asked: "If you have died one day, who the most unwilling? "
She answers without thinking: "It is certainly a son, he has not worked yet, has not taken a wife to give birth to the son yet. " He shakes the head and says: "I no, I hate to part with you. " "Will you hate to part with me? Let's coax me happily! " She laughs in the way.
"Really, I am serious, a boy of son, has been educated in the university, does not worry that not drifting along, the meal is eaten, it is a thing sooner or later to marry and settle down. But you are different, you move round me all one's life, does not have work, we do not have a lot of savings, if I have died, what will you do? " Saying, unexpectedly in the eyes he was a bit wet.
Her smile is stiff quickly, the tears have fallen down. He give up smoking so arduously, stopped drinking again, also changed the bad habits and customs originally, in order to there be able to be a good body, can live healthily, can watch over her, accompanying her. |
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• 2009-Jul-29 - In front of uncle
In front of uncle Zhang's colt, I keep revering, but no longer overcautious. I have found gradually, after giving lessons
Mr. Zhang want, chat a moment with me, discuss the chess, discuss poems, discuss words, discuss the play often, among them like to talk particularly
Play. Meng XiaoDong's name, story of the my uncle rock, I know from his mouth. He is the accent of Henan
,Standard Zhongzhou intonations, the words are spoken extremely professionally again, I can not understand well a lot of places. But I never interrupt him
The thread of a conversation, do not ask either, will not say to him: I can not understand. I myself often feel puzzled, one are learned, it
The person, how could chat with a little girl? Ponder, ponder, I think: On one hand because is here
" three red flags " " great leap forward " " politics assumes command " , " educate and serve for proletariat's politics " When
Taking the place of among the the roaring blaze, a schoolgirl goes to the house that treats coldly such as having me, it go listen to when the old
Sentence, old words, it useless. This scene can affect his enthusiasm out too more or less. On the other hand appear
The body, training, natural endowment, knowledge, conduct, the hobby, a great deal of factors such as being interesting were merged on him
Culture proud, make it fill the post of a disseminator of culture consciously. And the latter's composition is possible
A bit more.
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• 2009-Jul-3 - Smile and look at this change
Within several months, I find the situation really changed. Can only see few child is outdoors now. Studying my father's appearance, a family has tightened up their rope, the children are taken strict control home.
Smile and look at this change, my father says to me, his method is always right again.
Make me move and feel a lovely one very, " die " she Childhood in being the happy,it still can understand by those " major principle " ,Still know that it is necessary to defend father's decision.
Though a lot of people find out about the fur very much in education of U.S.A. in U.S.A.. They think, the study of American school is relaxed, Chinese child is very apt to break out. Still a lot of Chinese at paralysis in U.S.A. and other countries live so far on this kind of view, make them intoxicated with oneself, does not have very high requirement for the child, is not " in charge of " well The child, form adult children and all feel the final result sorry finally. People generally think, American parents ignore the child, Ren Qi develops freely, enjoying happy childhood, the child develops very well too. A lot of American such really in family perhaps, but not all like this. Unless in fact, unless to my knowledge, American parents,especially a lot of middle class upper strata with at parents of family, have a very severe one to the child too.
There are open days every year in the American school, that day, parents can reach the school, the teacher talks, find out about the situation with teaching in turn. I notice, father that daughter's good friend guides shellfish is every this day, are all taking paper and pen, rotate in a classroom. He may not get along well each teacher talks, however, he wants to get to the classroom gate, see conscientiously the wall is sticking to, depending on student's social safety number is a achievement form of the code name, not only copy his daughter's achievement, copy the supreme score of downing in each class. Bei Di says, his father " does accounts" with her according to the achievement that is copied . She doctor to graduate from Stamford in father, have high requirement very to daughter.
After the daughter is admitted to Harvard, psychology of an American colleague of my wife's is very uneven. She had already at that time had a premonition one's own child's future was far from good, very anxious. Under such delicate psychology, she is always very cold when seeing my wife, but, find out some of ours from her attacking by innuendo " The secret " . , sell the house lived in for many years heartlessly under her, move to the university city that we live from neighbor city Bryan, rent pieces of apartment, let I those school that daughter read at the child. The provided school of U.S.A. divides the studying area according to the address, like rowing slice enrolling new students at home. She educates for the child, makes a decision to move to better studying area, can be regarded as " mother Meng " of U.S.A. with heart . Later, heard again their family " went mad " ,Have sold 3 televisions completely! Only leave a radio and listen to the news. The whole family is determined, do not watch TV, do all one can to fight. |
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• 2009-Apr-17 - Have a kind of pressing cold
Have a kind of pressing cold to put the river in winter, all branches are only bald and cold and high and steep, mark one and a hole on the back of the wind. Form all over ice inside the river, the sun in winter reflects on the ice surface out a kind of smooth sparkling and crystal-clear and firm one. Freeze durably on the whole earth. All people are unoccupied, as if even the sun is unoccupied, only make a show, go through the motions. And the children are busy. They tease on the ice surface, they close an eye, break the ice-cubes to the ice surface parallelly by method of fetching water and floating, the sharp and exquisite sound skates in the surface. Except the firecracker in the Spring Festival, this is almost the most cheerful sound in whole winter.
Tong HuiXian determines to go to the Xu 's village this sunny winter. The excuses have been all looked for, go to borrow some money, by the way see Xu Yuan, pass a bit day returns the money again, can make a trip. Otherwise far slowly will run over at the night. On so cold a day, it does not play making a noise to meet the heavy snow. Tong HuiXian is very small diligently before going out to relieve oneself once, it is urgent and troublesome to suppress on the road on so cold a day. Summer, can open-air the homework. Finish relieving oneself refinedly and littly in virgin favor, wear the long muffler, a face leaves a pair of eyes, Tong HuiXian fills in one's arms in two steamed buns, sets out on a journey.
Go out, right away run into the dedicated long happiness. The virgin favor is too refined to expect at all her life has already liked to be linked to with Geng Chang since this morning. Geng ChangXi's both hands are copied inside the cuff, see Tong HuiXian coming up, show the smile that fawns on very much on Geng ChangXi's face, nod at the same time. Because hands are copied in the sleeve is in charge of, can bend one's back while nodding. Geng ChangXi's look seems to extremely fawn on in this case. Nod, go still in the refined courtesy place of the virgin favor. Like but blow a snivel instead dedicated and long, has followed angry white unreasonable person diesing. The virgin favor is afraid refinedly it is here behind that he follows, pretending to touch the pocket, has turned back in the room again, Tong HuiXian has hidden and looked at two behind crack, wait until not there is not sounding, come out again. This virgin favor is too refined to walk original distance. She winds and gets behind the room, determines to be published on the river from the ice surface of the village, will walk one 1 more on kilometer of ways like this, can have hidden from Geng ChangXi after all. Otherwise until cold wilderness walk so, tow one tail to let people to be getting on tenterhooks very much really behind.
Tong Hui's refined destiny has produced and made a variation in this wrong decision. Tong HuiXian's memory after returning to the city mostly all begin since the day of this severe cold, her destiny has tied the ice, her destiny only has one kind of such contents of reflecting light of the sun left, Tong HuiXian goes to the north of the village, in the face of the ice surface on the river, she is afraid. She has tried the hardness of the ice with a foot, is not sure. She remember slowly far, courage has grown up, it determines to chance it to close eyes. She has combined both feet, has jumped to the ice once jumping, rumble, nothing is left on ice surface.
Geng Chang likes to jump into the crevasse and absolutely deserve to be called and disregard own safety. According to cut as usual, jump into crevasse rescue one person that does not can swim, two people want, die first pair at least. However, this crude and rash fellow just has another heart in danger and disaster the most, he picks up Tong HuiXian's red towel from ice surface, throws it away on the front of the crevasse, water is not deep, Geng Chang likes to jump off the clothes that the crevasse touches to Tong HuiXian soon, the lucky god has patronized at this moment. What he caught is a leg of Tong HuiXian's, Geng ChangXi catches hold of, faces upward to open eyes excessively, he rows water when moving about on his eyes membrane like knife, bores the heart and aches, it is mere that whole the ice surface glimmered under the shining of the sun out unusually, the sun looks like an egg pornographic den on the ice sheet, morning fortunately, if in will it be time noon, Chang Geng like, can only see glass that meet the eye on every side spend certainly, he can't see anything. Geng Chang likes to see that muffler through the glittering ice sheet, forms the blood of the ice-cubes like a stand. Geng ChangXi does not dare to close one's eyes, but the cotton-padded clotheses of winter are all absorbed on the body by water, make his movements extremely straining, he looks like an enormous tortoise, stretch out the head doggedly, the ground moves four limbs arise as much as possible. The back in the ice of his head is moved quietly, that one breath of his will be used up soon, and on the top of the head is still the ice, Geng ChangXi's body has sunk, two legs are lost below, Geng ChangXi's both feet are the slope that ran into the riverbed at this time, he stand frank both legs, getting low head, ice pigeonhole in him and then shoulder. He squats, confides all the last strength, rushes forward. Split open a lot of chink around crevasse, otherwise dedicated to like even if it is one ox that rest, turn on these ice surface either while being long. His head has surfaced, it is exactly the danger spot of the life and death that this one breath can blow the surface of water wrinkled, like to gape and inhale dedicated and long, the ice-cubes have drawn back a piece of blood mouth on his forehead, the blood is welled up, flow into eyes, the sunshine in winter is scarlet limitlessly boundlessly, ChangXi Geng make virgin favor refined to pour body delay and debark, Tong HuiXian has one breath left, only know the bar of mouth. One mouth is bigger than every one. Geng Chang likes to squat, turns over Tong HuiXian very clumsily, let her belly lie prone on one's own thigh, Geng Chang likes to fiercely attack Tong HuiXian's back with the elbow joint, Tong Hui has played behind refined body, oh the ground is one, spit the yellow mud soup of a place out. Tong HuiXian has woken up. Lose consciousness refinedly instead in virgin favor of waking up.
When Tong HuiXian wakes up for the second time, Geng ChangXi's mother is keeping at her side. It is noon now, but very dark in the outdated room, Geng ChangXi's mother clicked an oil lamp, a piece of beans one of yellow yellow picture, Geng ChangXi's mother breathes a sigh of relief and speaks all rightly. The woman age big, mouth but first getting flat, seem the appearance of a benignant look, Tong HuiXian wants to move, but let her press. Tong HuiXian says softly: "How about him? " Geng ChangXi's mother says: "He is free, he is a very beginning ox, the hot porridge of bowl is all right. " It is dedicated to speak and like to just come back from that side of the barefoot doctor long in this way, he has been wrapped up in a soldier's overcoat, the mere binding is inside the slippers, make a white bandage on the head, is emitting the steam in the hair nest, Geng ChangXi licks the lip with the tongue very happily, rubs two big hands with the hands repeatedly. What about words Geng Chang can not like to think out, said: "I go to wash tea of candy for you. " The one breath that Geng ChangXi's mother has sighed, say to Tong HuiXian: "I heat up water, steep by a big jar of hot water, bubbles sweat, you can get up. "
Geng Chang likes to carry tea of candy. Give guest end candy tea to lay grand etiquette most, area of river, in being. Tong Hui has a headache refinedly terribly, the body is heavier and heavier. Tong HuiXian says: "Three happiness. " Three it likes to be pet name of ChangXi Geng, the whole village the old and the young call in this way, just Tong HuiXian has never shouted in this way. Tong Hui seals a lot of words to express the gratitude, does not know from which sentence to say with refined pit of the stomach, but has called: " three is liked " . " three is liked " Face have immediately cover with it cut crystal sugar. Tong HuiXian says: "You have rescued my life. " Geng Chang likes to put tea of candy on bedside cupboard smiling at, says sucking the thumb: "Best so, it is gladdest to rescue we. " HuiXian Tong struggle, want, prop up, stand up, go back to dormitory, have some involuntarily. Geng ChangXi is keeping watch on her, her black eyeball unable is so sparkling and crystal-clear. Geng ChangXi's lower lip is driven on Jue involuntarily. His lip is driven in a Jue, " three is liked " Have become " Geng ChangXi " . Tong HuiXian determines. She straining for the twelve Earthly Branches to blow body, raise quilt. Tong HuiXian finds eyes that Geng Chang liked stared at greatly very suddenly while raising quilts, it is close to that kind of flame of lighting to emerge. The virgin favor is too refined to expect one's own exactly stark-naked one at all, the whole body is pure white and bright, her breast sends out the brilliant rays not serious inside the light. Tong HuiXian has not seen oneself under the light like this by oneself, she is wrapped up in oneself in a hurry, keep a close watch on the dedicated long happiness intensely. Geng ChangXi is swallowing the saliva. Geng Chang likes to say: "Sister, sister. " The such one has spoken incoherently and already approached the edge of the danger. Geng ChangXi has let in this way two times " Sister " ,Can't help removing his army overcoat. There are only a pair of large underpants inside the army overcoat, other places are starknaked. Cover oneself refinedly in virgin favor. She will be quiet immediately if call him. But she dare not. She is even sorry, this person has just rescued her life, and Geng ChangXi has already stepped one step. Tong HuiXian has tightened up quilts, begs and says in a low voice: "Can't like you three times. " Begging the great majority for man to add fuel to the flames of the woman. Geng Chang likes to attack after deciding to attack. Geng Chang likes to say: "Sister, sister, the pigeon. " He has held her wrist with a firm grip, Tong Hui's refined head has left the pillow, she holds the head high, but does not dare to shout, Tong HuiXian says softly: "No, I ask you, no,I can't. " But virgin favor refined to see Chang Geng like, have an effect, one he have an effect white bandage spread and sink in, turn on very scarlet, the blood comes out from the bandage obscenely, drip on her right cheek from his nose, the virgin favor closes the eyes refinedly, the head lands on the pillow. She attempts to clamp one's own thigh, however, two knees with strength have separated them very rudely and unreasonably, a hard sharp device has withstood her. Carry it in her most serious place. Tong Hui's refined whole body has been fixed by two hands and two knees. Tong HuiXian says: "Ask you, ask you. " But it is internal that the hard sharp device is filled in her at this time, sharp pain has been inserted in together for a moment, that hard sharp device has dashed in her body under two three carelessly, a share of dirty, warm juices just gush in her body, as if the stinking Chinese ink is dripped in a record of fresh water, spread and sink in all over the placely everywhere irredeemably. This course massacred has dozens of seconds only, Geng ChangXi plucks from Tong HuiXian's body the thing which sticks blood and juice hurriedly, put on the overcoat, start running and go straight flurriedly, he bumps against on the door, " rumbles" inside the whole room It is. |
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• 2009-Mar-6 - Dependence
Dependence (1)
Another
Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces kind of most common misunderstanding to the love, regard the dependence as the real love, the psychologists will all meet this kind of question everyday. This kind of situation, the extremely depressed patient because the emotion is frustrated of now appears on one's body more. They are unable to stand being lonely, even the one that produce and commit suicide is read or in order to commit suicide and threaten. They say painfully: "I do not want to live on again! I have no husband ' Wife, boyfriend, girlfriend) ,What fun is there? How I am to love him ' She) Ah! " I have to tell them: "What you described is not love, but excessive reliance sense. To be precise, that is parasitic psychology. Can't survive if there are no others, mean you are the parasitic one, but the other side is the host. Your relation and emotion, do not have composition of freedom. You are because of needing
Just conbine together instead of loving. The real love is a free choice. The person really in love, may live, will just choose to live together at most. "
Without others' care and treatment, does not think life is not intact enough, so that unable normal life, this forms on psychology " The dependence " . Excessive reliance can only cause the morbid state. Certainly, we must distinguish the reliance of the morbid state and usually to the aspiration relying on. Everybody has demand for relying on and wishes eagerly, all hope to have stronger, stronger persons to care about oneself. No matter how strong we look, and no matter we spent the attention that is more great, do one's utmost to make the appearance that needn't care about, but in the heart of hearts, all of us wish eagerly to rely on others' feeling. No matter age, no matter ripe or not, we hope, have competent father or mother accompany about. The psychological health person acknowledges the rationality of this kind of feeling, but will not let it control one's own life. If it controls our every word and action firmly, controls all our feeling and needs, then it is no longer simple aspiration, and will become the excessive psychological problem that relies on. Because the excessive psychology that relies on and causes lacks proper care, the psychologist calls " the reliance personality of the passivity lacks proper care " ,In the unregulated phenomenon of psychology, this is the most common kind of symptom.
Person suffering from this kind of disease, how just think hard to obtain others' love, even energy does not love others, only wanting to tap others for the hungry one want the food, but can't take out the food and help others. They are lonely and lonely, unable to experience the sense of achievement forever. Particularly a terrible one is, they do not even know to suffer from " the reliance personality of the passivity lack proper care " by oneself . They can not break through it from my demarcation line, value depends on with others' emotion relation its life. There is a lathe worker 30 years old, ask me for help, because just three days ago, the wife leaves him taking two children. Lathe worker tell me whether this former wife son three threaten, take, leave house once, reason whether lathe worker did not care about family, do not care about she and child. The wife sends out and threatens each time, he will entreat piteously, guarantees that will certainly correct the mistake - --Including giving up the bad habit of getting drunk, but before long, he gets drunk again, the treatment of wife and child, there is not any improvement. The wife left him at last. He has not slept in two days and two nights, washes one's face with the tears, think that lost the meaning in life. He says crying bitterly: "Without family, I can not even live on in one quarter. I really love them very much! "
" then I do not understand, " Do I say, " do not you admit the wife's complaint is a fact? You are not willing to do anything for her, think when when to go home to go home, seldom consider her need. In addition, you can not speak with the child, does not play with them too for several months in succession, in this case, you and family have no emotion. They leave you, as to you, should not influence! "
" however, you have not found out, " He say " wife, child no either, I did not know who oneself was. Though I do not care about them, I love them like that. Have they, I nothing does not right away! "
At that time, he depressed to reach the limit, lose reason, I let two days after the he looking for me. Certainly I have never thought, his mood may change to some extent within short time. However, when I see him again, he is a face happy expression. As soon as he just came into my office, he said loudly: "All right, everything has gone over! My mood is excellent! "
I asked: "Have your wife and child come back? "
He says with joy: "No, they do not have any news. But went to the bar to drink last night, I met a girl, she said she liked me. Her situation is similar to me - --She has just said good-bye to husband. We agree to meet this evening. I am a normal person, I know who oneself is, needn't come to treat either afterwards. "
His change is quick, like performing conjuring tricks - --This is exactly a typical characteristic of a unregulated patient of reliance personality of passivity. They do not mind who the target who rely on is, so long as someone can rely on, perfectly contented. So long as through with others' relation, let them obtain a certain identity or role, they can feel comfortable, what identity that, unimportant to them. Their emotion relation, warm seemingly, fragile actually, because they construct the purpose of the emotion, just fill in the inanition of heart,
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• 2009-Mar-6 - Self demarcation line
Self demarcation line
I say,
Handmade Bracelets Beaded Bracelets Heart Necklace Beaded Necklaces it is usually only illusion to fall in love, can have deceived most common people, make people infatuated, what is the reason among them? This is because the feeling of falling in love, it is extremely similar to follow the real love.
Real love, special experience of self-perfection, until my demarcation line have close relation since. Intoxicated in the emotion of the love, we feel soul is extended limitlessly, march on towards the loved target. We wish eagerly to nourish for the other side, we hope the other side grows up. Attract target not including the I demarcation line since, force us produce excited, think dedicating passion and even life to the other side, such psychologist
Passionate state, is called " concentrate attention " . The target whom we concentrate on is exactly persons loved or things liked. Cordial to on I target a certain of demarcation line since, can make soul to occupy us it. For example, some people like the horticulture undertaking, he " loves " His garden, he gets the infinite sense of achievement from hobby, horticulture is his everything. In order to look after the good garden, he is unwilling to take more time to rest on weekend morning, get up to go to the garden to loosen the soil and apply fertilizer very early. He would rather even give up going out to travel, would rather ignore his wife. It is the amount of energy paid in garden, make him become this expert quickly: He understands the soil, fertilizer, roots, knowledge grafted, knows past, now and in the future of the garden. He can tell the advantages and disadvantages of the topography, garden where the characteristic of each of flowers and plants, garden are in,etc.. Personality, experience and intelligence of his part, integrate in horticulture undertaking. As to love and concern of horticulture, my demarcation line of since the ones that have expanded him greatly.
Long-term love as to a certain thing, make us live in the realm of concentrating attention, the self- demarcation line begins to extend. Will belong to and disappear to certain extent when extending, and our intelligence will be ripe, the love is being released constantly, the self- difference with the world is fuzzier and fuzzier, we integrate in external world. With the end completely of falling in love, wild with joy that we produce again and again, we really combine with targets loved. Perhaps it is not more fanatic than the passion of falling in love, but it is more steady and more lasting, make us more satisfied and more satisfied too. Taking love as characteristic" The peak is experienced " ,Step what Straw said with the psychologist Abraham " Experience in the plateau " It is not the same thing, the height which the latter has, already it was difficult to come to light suddenly, unlikely to disappear quickly too, but you can stay above for a long time, but will not drop down easily.
The sex and love are not the same thing, but may coincide. Under particular situation, sexual love, and I collapse of demarcation line have a certain relation since - --The latter let people produce wild with joy too. The self- demarcation line collapses in a flash, we may become extreme lustily, may all raise a cry of warning in front of the prostitutes " I loved you " Or " God " ,After being wild with joy, since my demarcation line will restore to the original state, we resume reason again, can't mention again to the other side spirit comes, even the minimum one likes being far from being. Sometimes, among the crowds, together with others, experience the arrival at a certain happy hour together, could experience the ecstasy of delight of the emotion climax, and since experience the ecstasy of delight that my demarcation line collapse and lead to the fact, but can well enjoy alone. Just in a flash, we forget who oneself is, only feel the key happens in soul, it is too timid to roam. We disappear in the universe, or and the universe is integrated, such a feeling, time when can only be continuously transient, even a only transient second.
Ecstasy of delight that the real love brings. The time to extend is for a long time even more, can make we and universe combine together, this kind of situation is called " the human nature and spirit combination " . In mysticism's person view, the universe is originally integral, fixed star, planet, house, tree, bird, oneself whom we usually talk about, it is not in fact independent individual, but it is the organic component of universe. Think the things are to isolate the individual at the moment, this is only a kind of illusion, Indian religionist and Buddhist call this phenomenon " melts unreally " . Like other mysticisms person,believe give up they since I demarcation line,could cognition real reality. Stand up isolatedly oneself, feel oneself independent individual of the universe, can not experience the harmony of the universe is unified. So, Indian religionist and Buddhist think, have not developed the infant coming from my demarcation line yet, can feel the true state even more than the adult. Some people even think, come back until infant times, could experience the true unified sense. View this, as to unwilling in the face of agony wanting some youth to bear responsibility, have very great appeal. They may think: "I needn't bear too much. I can ignore others' requirement. So long as stay at teenagers age, refuse to become adults, can enjoy the feeling of transcending worldliness and attaining holiness. " Unfortunately, they can't become sages because of this, it is apter to suffer from schizophrenia instead.
Most mysticisms person believe, there is a certain thing or finish some goals at first, just have a qualification" Give up " They. The baby is before training and coming from my demarcation line, it is truer than parents are close perhaps, but without parents' care and treatment, they are unable to survive, unable to express intelligence and opinion appropriately. Through the adult's stage, they may reach to the high realm, experience the extreme feeling. Some people think, draw support from the physiological " orgasm " Take fan unreal kinds of medicine, can also in order to border to reach alunite, in fact, the realm absolutely not alunite. The realm that wants to reach the alunite and live forever, obtain god inspiration, we must experience what is the real love, what the feeling of the love is, and should make arduous efforts for this.
At the meaning, love or " my demarcation line since " of sexual intercourse Disappear temporarily, can make us promise the other side, and the real love may be by this production. Because we can taste the flavour of the love ahead of time by this - --I.e. the feeling of the mysterious love of the illusion, so after the passion of the love, we are still bent on that kind of beautiful feeling. Love is not the love, it is not the love to fall in love, but it loves
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