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• 2009-Dec-28 - Enjoy loneliness
Enjoy loneliness
What be lonely, loneliness will it be mature period during the journey life, though it spend all over end of the branch overflowing with enthusiasm, it is sane and ripe but there is fruit growing in close clusters.
Knowledge that the loneliness is is substantial, the tranquility of spirit, the gentle disposition of the mind, intelligent integration. It is lonely to be content with, it is often the foundation stone keeping the psychology calm, getting rid of a great deal of troubles, keeping living strength. In people's life, the loneliness is that the people experience a kind of psychology of the experience of life, 1,000 people have 1,000 kinds of loneliness. Some people no matter in what case the meeting is felt to be lonely; It would not be lonely so long as some people have the friend or relative around. Introverted or the extroversion, with having positive connection lonelily and lonelily. Love speech people of form rich and colorful in possible inner world, person who speak unceasingly possible belly empty. The same things everybody's view is not the same. A cloudy day, some people's premonition will rain, others' premonition will be fine, even if the former can feel lonely into the crowd or in the night club too to walk.
Come and don't be afraid lonelily, it is not the dreadful monsters. So long as you yourself do not feel lonely would not be lonely. Others see you seem very lonely, in fact you may be very happy. Engage in scholarship, take willing and lonely, life take willing and lonely too sometimes. The external world is very excellent, get back to the quiet harbour to have a rest finally. Someone says " Lonely " Can make people suffocate, but I think it is you that will appreciate that lonely. All things are divided into two. Perhaps happy to make people to be young vivaciously, but lonely to will let people to be ripe and capable while being deep.
I like being lonely for this. Experience lonely to perplex by the oppressive air, but among this kind of atmosphere, consider, dissect, have a taste of life characterized realm stay alone, carefully calm. When a person is not interfered with by external noise quietly, the world will become quiet, you can by deep in thought reverie unrestrained, arrange for tomorrow's work, prepare for future life since, polish for the article that is conceived ...... If you can appreciate these, like having a taste of the delicate fragrance of Milan, the elegance of the chrysanthemum in autumn, purity of the lily. Therefore can also seek actual oneself. It is sad for everything not to go, not for being false and timid and weak-willed and trouble, only willing this is lonely, you can find the true essence of life.
Enjoy loneliness, is in fact improving the shortcoming of soul; The loneliness is usually a kind of agony, but a kind of art too sometimes. Even if mankind's biggest agony always remembers some in the heart that shouldn't think of the thing unwilling to do, guide people recall, guide people think lonely but merciless. Lonely people associate few, ponder more, the ones that saw everything in this world are thorough, but does not harangue. It is in loneliness it put come out,whose name is environment and mood hasten on,poise and revealments natural that bring up.
" the sages and men of virtue are lonely much from ancient times " ,Sages and men of virtue and lonely person that link together, have to right to have first meeting deeply original while being lonely. The loneliness is not retiring from the world and freeing from philistinism, above the material attractions of the world, but it is the tranquility of a kind of psychology, quietness can make people hear usually sound heard, make the morals house hear the little language of the conscience, having enabled the politician and heard public heart shouting, it was deep and remote and loud that the ones that make common people hear the dusk move sneaked the interest or green grass and sprouted. Lonely, it is the deep palimnesis, the surging of the depths of tidal surge of emotion, the course of distillation which gives a new lease of life to an emotion of the life.
Enjoy loneliness, it is cool that it is a kind of mental state that needs, the broadness of a kind of mind; A kind of extraordinary and refined tolerance. Unload not being numerous and complicated down, let thought distillation, find true oneself.
Enjoy loneliness, realize the change of life when being calm, understand the truth, good and beauty of the human nature from the difficulty, build the hedge which isolates the common customs with one's own elegance. " water is quiet and clear, people are quiet and bright " . Getting quiet in front of us for world, go to look for the fresh space.
Enjoy loneliness, it is knowledge and accumulation of morality, the training realm reaches the high-level behavior. It was shallow small stream that gurgled and banged, the deadly still one is the deep lake.
It is lonely to bear, it is a kind of one's own training too. Mr. Qian Zhongshu may be bear the lonely model. So, are praised as " the respected knowledge old man " by people . The flighty and impatient air is rash, like showing one's own person everywhere, it is that a kind of ignorant one is shallow.
Enjoy loneliness, it is in fact the supreme level of enjoying life. Like one's own reverie quietly, always whom heart lets fly away far, the ones that flew did not have end, seem to be that seek asking for! Seem to be again that has found the ownership of one's own soul!
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